Anyone else have there game freeze suddenly in the middle of a GBL match a little before 2am eastern time? Friend and I both had to restart out games. Happened at the same time to both of us. Only I have been able to log back in.

I’ve become very alone not really having too many friends. Out of college for a bit and with work and just trying to save money I’m in a routine of just trying to ‘grind’ till I get there. I tell myself I’ll make friends and live life when I get there. I don’t know what I’m gonna do that but i feel like I’m waiting and just watching life go.
I went to my parents about this and sorta opened up to my mom. She said “what do you want me to say?” Then I tried to call some other people in the family and got critiqued basically told me I need to put more hours at work to stop getting emotional. It was over personal matters and it just made m feel stupid. Like I shouldn’t share.
I guess I am upset because if not my family who can I talk to? I know people call their parents for emotional related things. I guess friends?

I want to reach out to her so bad. It’s been a month and a half and after a long text I sent to her saying it’s best If we just go separate ways, I regret my decision to send that message.
The whole reason I said to go separate ways was because she was in an open relationship, and after meeting each other became romantically/emotionally involved with one another .
Eventually after about 6 months, she began fading away. She’d flake out, reschedule, etc. She always told me how much i meant to her ,but I figured her avoidance was coming from her relationship. Like maybe they closed the relationship/ figured things out.
The last time we hung out, she said she could only hang out with me “once a month”. I took that as a sign of ‘goodbye’ and sent a text saying it’s best we go No Contact and go out separate ways.
She understood. But now i’m here, heartbroken and empty. She brought more joy to my life than any one of my friends or previous partners. Not only did I love her, but I also cherish the moments I had with her, as I’ve never laughed, and had as much fun in my life and the times I spend with her.
I want to reach out so bad, but every single one of my friends and family says it’s not a good idea. Idk what to do. At this point I just want her friendship, which is weird that she pushed me away like that. But idk what to do

I have posted about my friend Annie on Reddit previously regarding her not paying for a Taylor Swift ticket. I am happy to report she did pay for the ticket! But has not paid for the hotel or anything else I pre purchased for the trip. We’ll see what happens there. If she doesn’t pay beforehand, I’ll offer the refund her.
My issue is now I am really not enjoying this moment in our friendship. Annie and I worked together when I was in college. And honestly, everyone at work despised Annie. She was a manager who was promoted because the person who promoted her was only there temporarily and needed someone with full availability. Annie was the only one, so she got it. She was a horrible manager. She was SUPER bossy and condescending. If you didn’t agree with her, she’d get furious and definitely showed it in front of customers. Slamming stuff on the counter, yelling “Whatever do whatever you want I don’t care” if you asked a process question.
It’s been awhile, and I thought Annie had grown after she graduated school. At first, it seemed like she had. She’s been really fun to hang out with, she’s funny, and we hang out frequently. I’m now realizing that it’s not changed as much as I’d hoped.
She will ask me to hang out, and if I’m busy, she seems to get a little vindictive. She’ll ask for another day to hang out, and without fail will cancel on the first attempt because she wants to go see her niece, but posts pictures of herself elsewhere. It really doesn’t bother me though because usually I had other things I wanted to do.
She has a deep need to be right all the time. As we plan our trip, I keep hearing “I literally go to Detroit ALL the time so I know these things OP.” She’s gone once in the last year, I’ve gone 10 times this year alone. “I should drive because I go ALL the time OP.” If I say well I go a lot too and I think xyz has worked well in the past, it’s “Okay.” (She doesn’t ever text like that, so she definitely wants me to know she’s mad).
She is to this day extremely babied by her mom (as in, her mom drives an hour every week to do her dishes. She’s 27). And I think that is partly the issue too. She can’t handle not getting her way.
She blames a lot on her anxiety and depression so I feel really bad. I do generally enjoy our friendship, but when she gets into these weird little fits, I can’t stand her.
I have never been good with confrontation, and most of my friends moved away after college. It’s so hard to make friends as an adult. How do you guys manage friendships where there are times that you genuinely just do not like the person? Or would you just move on entirely from the friendship? Should you tell a friend about negative features you perceive in their personality? I’m sure I have a lot of negatives as well, so that makes me feel like I have no room to talk.
Please help, adult friendships are hard. 🥲
TLDR; I have a friend who’s personality really clashes with mine at times. Is it worth trying to retain a friendship? If so, how?

some added context:
when i was 15 i was diagnosed with a thyroid issue that increased my calcium levels a lot. this happened in early 2019, a few months later my parents divorced which i saw coming awhile ago. that same summer i had a spinal fusion surgery which altered my life and changed me. i became depressed, scared, and filled myself with self doubt. as i was recovering from that surgery i had developed gallstones. i was 16 at this point and that pain woke me up at night and would make me cry myself to sleep. i eventually had my gallbladder removed, and recovered from that kind of. that all happened in 2019. at the start of 2020 i was again having stomach issues and found out i had pancreatitis which the doctors wanted to do a scope of my bowels for. the “special” stuff they gave me made me nonstop puke to where i had to be rushed to the ER, where long story short, i spent about 2 months enduring pain. i would throw up almost every day. for context i was about 6’1 and weighed 150-160, by the time i was almost out i weighed 119. i was miserable. i recall one time i broke down and looked at the ceiling and asked God why me? i was raised catholic, was baptized, prayed with my mom every night as a kid, and just felt hurt. that same day i did that, the doctors came in and confirmed i was able to be transferred to the best hospital in the country for better treatment. i found out i had a 20 cm sudocist weighing down on my stomach so nothing could pass through. if i ate or drank anything it could’ve imploded and i would’ve died without me or anyone knowing before it was too late. i found this out because i begged a nurse for water after i threw up again, and my doctor dropped that bomb on me. it changed me i think, my dad who’s been my best friend all my life wasn’t there and if i would’ve died without him i don’t even know. after i was released, the doctors there were able to find the problem in my thyroid causing all these issues. i had it fixed at 17. through all of these things i’d mentioned i had a girlfriend who stuck by my side through it all, even throwing her college career away for me. when i got better i cheated on her, multiple times. i said horrible things to her, even tried OD because i was so ashamed and embarrassed with myself. here recently i’ve been struggling with anxiety, i’m 19 now and my father kicked me out. he’s my best friend and we’re better now, but all of these things happened and i’d like to think for a reason. my girlfriend has forgiven me, a lot of people have, and i’ve been listening to the bible more since all of this. but i feel ashamed because i’m scared to ask Jesus to enter my heart and change me. i’ve seen a lot of videos and people talk about how we should pray for this, but i’m petrified to go through something like those events again. i know God is loving and caring to an immeasurable degree, but i’m just scared that i’ll be tested. i don’t know what it means to ask Him to enter my life.
i apologize for the ramble, i just wanted to share my context as to why i have cold feet i guess.

Based on the "requirements" I've seen set forth in profiles on the various apps, here are the 10 reasons why I am not relationship material.

1. I am not ambitious. IOW, I'm perfectly content being poor, having a little more than enough to pay my bills, but more than enough time with friends and family.
2. I am currently 40lbs overweight. If the past four months are any indication, the weight will be gone in the next 4-5 months.
3. I don't understand flirting. It goes right over my head and I may even come back with a response like "Oh, that's nice" which makes absolutely zero sense.
4. I do not have the mental or physical energy for anything other than monogamy.
5. I really like the outdoors and outdoor activities like hiking and camping...but it's not my whole life/identity and I really like doing other things too.
6. I won't relocate. I love volunteering in my community and making my little part of the world a better place.
7. I don't do drugs or smoke and don't want to be with someone who does. I also do not get drunk or buzzed.
8. I am not a great cook. The bar has been set at Edible/Inedible, and while I am slowly getting better, I am currently at 82.6% edible if your pallet isn't too refined.
9. I am a single mom to an older teen who is nearly self-sufficient.
10. I prefer cats to dogs.

....and 1 reason I may possibly be relationship material

1. I've dealt with my past, my baggage, and traumas. I am currently so emotionally stable I'm freaking boring. I've been described as dependable and steadfast. No craziness or drama of any kind; no exes, ghosts, or skeletons. I'm not kidding when I say boring.

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I have no friends, never kissed or had intimacy while I made hundreds of guy friends who have this, and my parent health keeps getting worse (went to many doctors today just to help my mother out and found out they had no medicine Soon I'll be by myself as she was the last person who cared about me) I remember before covid people would love each other and care nobody cares now it's truly hard to be tough in this world when there is no love. The love I do receive is sadly from the gym receptionists and we all know they have to smile at you as that's their job. I'll be honest with you my emotions have been dead since 11. I tried changing recently a lot. But this will never work out my world will never change around me no matter how hard I try to make friends or even find somebody. I'll always be a loser just like my bullies told me when I was younger. I'm going to end it once my mother passes away which is soon. 😮‍💨 Peace out everyone hopefully you all still have a last thread to hold onto to because mine is departing soon and never returning back ❤️✌️.

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I broke up with a girl I was madly in love with many years ago. While going out, we went through a ton of turmoil together, not much arguing, but going through tough things together. (For 2 1/2 yrs you wouldn’t believe the amount) We stayed friends after I broke up w/ her. I thought that we would be friends forever because of all the intense and beautiful things about our past and friendship..(This was years ago) I was dating other people & she wasn’t. At a certain point, she started dating a dude who was really into firearms, and she grew to like them too. I thought she knew how against that I am, and how it would be obvious that I couldn’t be her friend in this new situation. So we stopped being best friends, and it didn’t end super happily, I felt very upset about it all and couldn’t express myself well. I think there was some resentment still, on my end. I guess from her doing some pretty messed up stuff like cheating on me. For some reason I feel I am still processing a lot of this, or more-so, I neeeed to process a lot of this… any perspective etc is appreciated. I don’t know how to feel about it all.. I want the best for everyone. Bless up.

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Okay to start off I’m a 19yo expecting mother and I have never been in a relationship with her dad. He has other kids and I texted one of their mothers to see if she’d be interested in the kids being around each other as I’m gonna give birth soon. She was really cool and nice about it. She even offered to help if I needed anything so I didn’t think there would be an issue. He called me and seemed upset about it. He said it was “messy” and that I should have just let him do it. In my mind I was talking about the kids being around each other even when he isn’t around because he’s not a very consistent or reliable person. So I wanted to make sure if she is around a sibling it’s consistent and maybe I’d even make a friend in the process with our kids being around each other. I’m starting to think it was a kind of weird thing for me to do. He hasn’t really contributed anything during the pregnancy and after I thought about it I don’t really know why I think it’s important that she knows her siblings. I think a part of it is that I’m close to my siblings and I want the same thing for her but other than that I don’t think I have a good reason to care about her being around them or him for that matter. I didn’t have malicious intentions and i thought it would be a pretty normal thing to do when I did it. I could have just been thinking too far ahead or doing weird stuff because of pregnancy emotions or something. I’m just really confused about my decision now. My best friend said it wasn’t weird but now I’m second guessing myself and I’m kind of embarrassed if that was a weird thing to do. AITA?

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As we finish divorce we split weeks, I have sunday-tuesday, she has Thursday-saturday (kinda). She has moved out to live with her new bf (it's complicated, no direct slut bashing, we were in loveless marriage for three years).
However, level of not caring is just wow.
Kids stay with me at home every night, one of kids is special needs and often needs help over night. I do all school mornings, she comes over 330-5pm on school days I as finish up work to be with kids, we switch Wednesdays, on her nights she sticks around until 8pm (her guy works nights, she needs to get back by 830 to say goodbye to him--she says). (They are unwisely trying to have a kid three months after meeting).
Stbx didn't come over on Monday, which okay, not her day, but was a holiday and kids home all day. since I was off and Monday is one of her guys off days, and then when she decided to tell me Monday night maybe she had really messed things up with him and I told her off that I wasn't one to talk to about that (she was catastrophiizing) I then didn't have her come over on Tuesday and took off early from work, then was over yesterday from 330-8, then today was over 330-5pm, but apparently had a lot of drama going on and wasn't feeling mentally great, including being sad I took down all the art she had put up (even though she doesn't live here anymore), so I offered to take over, she said she felt bad to have to have me take more time with kids, but I told her frankly I have no interest being in same building with her while she is not in a good space mentally which she accepted. Oh, and then as I'm having best friend and his wife over for dinner on Friday, she will only be over here from 330-5pm to a funeral in hometown on Saturday so she won't take that day with kids, then Sunday is my day again.
So between Saturday at 7pm (when she left an hour early to fuck) to next Monday at 330 she will have seen the kids 7.5 hours.
Where as, not counting school hours (where I am still primary contact as I work from home and school is five minutes away but she is living 20-30 away) I will have spent 170 hours within 30ft of them (expect when I take them to a park or something).
Idk, I get why she went to find someone else, but God damn, are you lost in lust.

i don’t know how to exactly describe what is going on; but, TLDR: i’m in a horrible relationship with a narcissist, idk what to do, and i’m in a lot of debt.
im mostly writing this cause im confused and i literally keep talking to my snap AI and all it tells me is to “talk to my partner” which i have done. MANY. TIMES. but it’s also like uhhhhh, we are broke and you don’t want to help me ?
im i’m a relationship with a 25m that literally just stays home, play video games and smokes weed. i literally pay for everything - it’s like pulling teeth when trying to get him to ask his brother for money (i kinda don’t have friends cause i have become so overwhelmed with my relationship and he also says dumb stuff when i mention any kind of “friend”)
he doesn’t contribute at all with house chores - he really only cleans his area. if i mention the fact that he should help me, he gets mad and makes excuses. it’s been on my mind since he said it, but this dude really told me that whenever he gets money, he’s not going to “buy” me a thing (when i have literally paid for everything)
at this point, i need validation and guidance. i’m really bad at confronting people, but it’s getting so out of hand. i really think he is using me, but why? he always says he’s applying, i’ve seen so many places hiring, and nothing.
sometimes i feel like i’m in the wrong since i guess i enable him - but i’ve had it: i felt “YOU NEED TO LEAVE” at the tip of my tongue (but i just cannot get myself to do so). i brought home pizza, he ate most of it and started saying he was hungry just minutes after eating the pizza. then, he kept trying to get me to buy him mcdonald’s ice cream. i have a hard time saying “no” but what i don’t get is that he knows how broke we are, yet is always asking for stuff (he asks for games, food and weed). why doesn’t he get it?
i just wish i had someone. i miss my friends.

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I have spent 3 and a half hours trying to finish this one task, asked two of my friends who play/played rdr2, watched tutorials and read walkthrus. I can’t solve it.
I have four of the wanted posters: one from the train station, one from the sheriff’s office, one from behind the guy standing against the pole, and one in front of the blue house.
The last one in front of the saloon has not appeared for me. The bounty hunter isn’t there nor does he show up. I’ve tried staying overnight at the inn, going back to camp and coming back, restarting the console. What am I missing??? It’s driving me up the wall!

For some context, my partner and I of nearly 3 years have been planning on moving together and we’ve been trying to figuring out the best way to manage our different circumstances/needs regarding quarantining.
I’m lucky enough to have a job that lets me work almost exclusively from home. I’m also extremely introverted and so quarantining basically completely with very little outside interaction isn’t super difficult for me. However I have been suffering from a rough bout of long Covid and my primary concern is getting it again.
My partner is going to be starting work as a high school teacher soon, so there’s going to be a lot of potential exposure and risk that’s simply out of his control. He’s also a good deal more social than me and being able to see his friends/family on occasion is pretty essential to his mental health. He can cut out events at big crowds and such but never being able to go over to his mom’s for dinner or meet friends is really taxing. I get it, even as introverted as I am the constant isolation does wear on me. I just get nervous about any extra degree of exposure.
Is there any reasonable way to reconcile these two sets of needs in one living situation? We’re aware of the level of conflict and have talked about delaying living together, but we have no idea when/if this is gonna end. We’ve also talked about the possibility of ending our relationship in order to make sure we are both free to pursue a situation that works best for us, but if not for this issue we really work well together and I’d hate to just end things if a workaround was possible. Any advice would be super appreciated, thanks!

So, I’m the only lesbian in the office I work at (as far as I know). And today my coworker was telling some folks her “girlfriend” was coming to visit and asked for some recommendations on where to take her for some fun activities.
Well, I got excited. Because I don’t have a lot of gay friends, especially queer coworkers in the office. There are a handful of gay cis men, but no other lesbians, which is a bit of a bummer. It’d be cool to have a coworker I knew that lived in the same world I did each day. Help the office feel a little less lonely.
Anyway, I came to find out my coworker was just referring to her friend, who happens to be a girl, as her girlfriend. She’s cishet, and I guess I got a little annoyed with her word usage.
I’d never say anything or try to police language. But why wouldn’t she just say a friend was coming to visit? Why use a word that has more significant meaning to queer girls?
Am I wrong to be a little annoyed by this?